Divorced couples say those 21 things would have saved their marriage

For some, marriage is a dream, a childhood dream, but for others, it is associated with disappointment and bitterness. We are going to talk here about marriage, from the point of view of those who have loved and lost.

According to the divorced, here are 21 things whose implementation would have saved their marriage.

It's a sad subject on the surface, but the priceless wisdom of these words is something we can all apply to our relationships, whether you're married or not.

Many of these points are simple reminders that love resides in the little things in life.

Divorced couples say that these 21 things would have saved their marriage:

1. Your wedding is not guaranteed to be as beautiful as your wishes. It depends on what you sow every day.
2. The roots of your love require depth from the beginning. If love is by attraction or on the surface, love will die.
3. Some elements of your wedding are likely to be frustrating, but have enough love in you to have enough patience to overcome the ups and downs.
4. The grass is not greener on the other side of the fence. Although things might seem more abundant, you do not know the quality of the soil.
5. It's more than just a ring. Can you imagine yourself growing old or sick with this person?
6.  It is best to calm yourself before using hard words in a fight.
7. You must both drive behind you.
8. If your partner walks away and avoids speaking, you may have to wait for him to come back. With patience.
9.  Marriage is not always exciting. Finding day-to-day joy in the little things of life will serve the common good.
10. A good marriage means getting your hands dirty. Be participatory every day. Do not expect perfection.
11. We are all under construction as ongoing projects. Accept your partner as he is while he works there.
12. L’intimité est la seule chose qui sépare votre mariage de vos autres relations. Nourrissez-la.
13. Un bon mariage requiert deux personnes qui apprennent encore à connaître la vie et les autres.
14. Sometimes marriage requires you to bend down and tie your partner's shoes when he or she is simply not able to do it.
15. Expect important storms in your marriage. You may question the love you have for your partner and sometimes feel alone.
16. But good marriages are two partners who hold fast in difficult times and see the light of a whole new day.
17. Having a good couple is something really simple. Things are easy - most of the time.
18. If your partner has an eye or a grip on you, or is trying to place a lock on you, it's not love. It's a toxic control.
19. Love allows the other to rest sometimes and be lazy. We can not always be on our 31st.
20. And the little simple things you do or DO NOT do every day make the difference.
21. Small gestures can lead to big changes that contribute to the well-being of a marriage.