Declaring your love: how to confess your love?

He or she likes you, for a long time sometimes, but how to declare to him your flame? To dare to confess your love is often complicated. How do you know if you like him? Does he or she share your feelings? How to find the right words? When to tell him? So many questions that keep saying "I love you" ... but do not stop to open his heart if you feel ready!



For a while, you can not get it off your head ... You think about him or her all the time. If there are signs - a smile, an exchange of text messages, some words or attitudes - that can tell you that he or she is interested in you, you would like to be clear about it by telling him your passion. If the exercise seems simple, as soon as we consider daring to confess his attraction and his love to the other, we are assailed by thousands of questions: How to tell him? Is this feeling reciprocal? What words to say "I love you"? What is the right moment?

There is no single answer to these questions, each love story being unique. A good understanding of your feelings along with some knowledge about the "alchemy" of love will allow you to find the inner resources to declare your love. No magic recipe to know if the other one likes you, therefore, however some signs of the nascent love can be identified: a gesture, a clumsiness, cheeks that turn red ... But be careful, to declare its flame is not an exercise in rhetoric where good words are enough! Because love is not always reflected. We must know how to take advantage of the amorous impulse, the one that turns heads and gives us the impression of living a dream, to relieve fears and reluctance and finally confess his feelings to the other.

To dare to say "I love you" requires courage, as psychosociologist Jacques Salomé puts it: "The difficulty in saying I love you is matched only by the daring to recognize and accept the need to be loved. But this courage is often well rewarded: to say his love allows to resonate with your deep feelings but also to cultivate a sincere and sensitive relationship with the other. This selection of articles will allow you to see a little clear in you and to know a little more about this great feeling that is love. But do not forget that there are thousands of ways to declare your love according to your language of love. The best will therefore necessarily be the one you will feel as the most natural.

When he is here, we can not doubt his presence. But as soon as we try to define it, love takes pleasure in escaping us. Inquiry on a feeling that resists logic.


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