5 SIGNS THAT YOU ARE IN A TOXIC AND SUFFICIENT RELATIONSHIP

"Trust your instinct. It's better for the mistakes to be yours, rather than someone else's. -Billy Wilder

I call them toxic relationships because our authentic "self" disappears to make room for someone or something else, forgetting all that was natural to you in the process.

The little we know is that our desire to be pleasant and accepted blocks the natural process of growth.

While some difficult relationships can open our eyes to new perspectives and develop our consciousness, obviously some of us stifle and hinder our development. Our intuition will warn us one way or another. She tells us, change and growth should feel good!

It is important to know when you are in a toxic relationship so you can choose something better for you.

When I was in my toxic relationships, I ignored my intuition for my logical mind, who told me it was worse to lose that person than to live with her / him.
But our intuition knows it better, unlike our mind, its only motivation is our happiness.

5 signs that you are in a toxic and exhausting relationship

"The toxic" does not only imply obvious damage such as physical violence, theft, or insults. It also represents all of the internal disorders that result from an unhealthy relationship. I would like to share how I learned to recognize when I was in a relationship that did not suit me.
Here are 5 signs that tell you that you are in a typical toxic relationship:

1. You feel like you're doing nothing good

The other person constantly belittles you by saying that you are not good enough. He makes fun of your personality, and you are ashamed most of the time. You feel forgiven only when you accept the personality traits of the person who judges you.

2. Everything revolves around the person and we hardly ever talk about you

You too have feelings, but the other person will not always take the time to listen to them carefully. You can not have a real conversation where you listen, consider and respect your opinion. Instead of knowing your feelings 100%, they find a way to turn everything around them. It seems that these people particularly like to have the last word.

3. You can not fully enjoy the good times with this person.

Every day brings a new challenge. It seems that they are still criticizing you or criticizing someone close to you. Their attempt to control your behavior is an attempt to control your happiness and sometimes even to have a hold on your will.
4. You are uncomfortable when you are with this person

You do not feel free to express your opinion. You must show another face just to be accepted by that person. You realize that you do not even recognize yourself anymore and you may even find yourself saying and doing things that you do not fully agree with just to avoid creating problems with that person.
5. You do not have the right to grow or change

As soon as you want to grow and improve, the other person responds with mockery and disbelief. There is no encouragement or support for your efforts. Instead, they will keep you stuck in old judgments by insisting that you are not able to do things on your own or succeed.

Even if you only know one of these signs, check that your relationship does not hurt you more than good. Evaluate your relationship and what it is worth for you.
Adopt the answers that come from your intuition because she wishes you the best, and this relationship might not be the best for you.
Act according to your intuition. You will not be disappointed.

Perhaps you will choose to talk about your feelings with the other person, or you will decide to put more distance between the two of you.
If you feel uncomfortable or unstable in the relationship, it is important not to wait until the effects of these sufferings turn into depression. Taking action is the best medicine.